How do you Know if you’re ready to Propose?

In recent years, the humble marriage proposal has become a sensational and spectacular show for many would-be-weds. Proposal planning is a booming business with Brits spending up to £165,000 to pop the question in an unforgettable way, although many still favour more traditional situations.

Before you get too caught up in the logistics, you need to make sure that the time is right. But how do you know if you’re ready to propose? Use this blog as a helpful guide and if you tick all the boxes – go with your gut!

You speak about the future

A sign that you and your partner are ready to get engaged is if you speak about the future. This might include discussing shared plans for the years to come or talking about buying a house together. It could even be as simple as organising a holiday for a far off date.

You’ve discussed the ring

Even if it was light-hearted, if you’ve discussed the ring then it could be an indication that it’s time to propose. Your partner might have described the engagement ring of their dreams and even shown you a picture of what they like.

More subtle conversation around their general jewellery preferences is a good sign, too. Pay attention to their likes and dislikes in terms of style, metal, and gemstones.

You’re happy to chat money

Open communication about finances in a marriage is very important if it’s going to be successful. Make sure that you understand each other’s financial situation before you get down on one knee.

You should also chat about managing money as a married couple and see if you share the same values. Everyone has their own view on joint funds and personal savings, and you need to be in agreement before you decide to tie the knot.

You’ve talked about goals

Clear communication about your life goals is also essential for those who plan to be legally bonded. You need to make sure that you’re both open to letting the other grow and pursue personal ambitions, and understand what you are or are not able content to compromise on.

For example, couples should discuss having children before getting married. Even if one or both of you is not sure how you feel about starting a family, at least you’ll be on the same page when you’re walking down the aisle.

Other potential life goals to discuss include career dreams, moving abroad, personal development desires and achievements relating to their passions.

You feel like best friends

Ultimately, you’ll know if you want to spend the rest of your life with your other half. If you feel like best friends and you’re confident that they’ll love and support you both in good times and low moments, it’s likely that you’re ready to propose.